{"id":5616,"date":"2022-01-25T20:14:25","date_gmt":"2022-01-26T03:14:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/?p=5616"},"modified":"2022-01-25T20:14:27","modified_gmt":"2022-01-26T03:14:27","slug":"my-friend-died-yesterday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/?p=5616","title":{"rendered":"My Friend Died Yesterday"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.fbsbx.com\/v\/t59.2708-21\/272655534_628188148508954_5510923723764351469_n.gif?_nc_cat=107&amp;ccb=1-5&amp;_nc_sid=041f46&amp;_nc_ohc=V-ffUU1CLN8AX9XbDKo&amp;_nc_ht=cdn.fbsbx.com&amp;oh=03_AVJT4e7JJDTnGoOvo4QG7Qrkic8rRlMgSqtJ_6BX73hZPw&amp;oe=61F25C9D\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I lost my friend yesterday.<br>She died of Covid.<br>After painful, frightening weeks <br>in the hospital.<br>After undergoing procedures that couldn&#8217;t save her.<br>Alone and scared with no one <br>by her side<br>which she always confided to me was her worst nightmare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I lost my friend yesterday,<br>But in truth<br>I lost touch with her slowly<br>During the pandemic<br>As many of us did<br>With one another<br>As we socialized less<br>And felt overall less social.<br>Indeed she was<br>Unvaccinated<br>And that was hard<br>But she wore her mask<br>Socially distanced<br>And followed the<br>Best advice she could find<br>Unfortunately there was<br>So much misinformation<br>Readily available to her<br>Even some of her family<br>Members were politicized<br>Conspiracy theorists<br>Social media<br>Helped to keep her<br>In the dark<br>Giving her false sense<br>Of security that<br>She was strong enough<br>And Covid would be mild<br>The algorithms showed her<br>More things of the same<br>Instead of showing her<br>That she was only part<br>of the fringe few<br>The news she watched<br>Questioned the safety<br>Of the vaccine<br>And that became an<br>Insurmountable<br>Obstacle<br>Coupled with her<br>Panic brain<br>Which already<br>Limited her life<br>She believed<br>Scare tactics<br>Over science<br>And given what I know<br>About technology<br>And the human condition<br>I can&#8217;t blame her<br>For her ignorance<br>Indeed I don&#8217;t<br>Think she had<br>&#8220;A choice&#8221;<br>Because she couldn&#8217;t<br>Choose freely<br>She needed help to<br>Overcome her fears<br>But instead<br>Got Fox News<br>To amplify them<br>I have only compassion<br>For my friend<br>She was always afraid<br>Of being out of<br>Her comfort zone<br>And those last weeks<br>Of her life<br>Separated from family<br>Isolated and gasping<br>For every breath<br>Had to be a living hell<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I lost my friend yesterday<br>But how many more people<br>Will die today?<br>Because they are living<br>In a bubble of<br>Misinformation for Profit<br>They believe the lies<br>That vaccinated people<br>Are dying too, and<br>Of course they are<br>But the<br>VAST<br>MAJORITY<br>OF DEATHS<br>ARE<br>UNVACCINATED<br>PEOPLE<br>Whether we<br>Quibble about numbers<br>Is it 90% or 95%<br>Ten times more likely<br>Or 14x more<br>However you slice<br>This pizza pie chart<br>Vaccinated people<br>Have better odds of<br>Surviving<br>But what?<br>You want your freedom<br>To choose?<br>I&#8217;m cool with that.<br>Until your dumb choice<br>Killed my friend.<br>Until your propaganda<br>Made her so afraid<br>She couldn&#8217;t see the<br>Forest of facts<br>Thru the tree of lies<br>Until she trusted<br>Your social media rants<br>More than doctors<br>Trained to save lives<br>Until you were so<br>Full of your own<br>Bullshit<br>That you went unmasked<br>To her house<br>To celebrate the holidays<br>Cause no one was<br>Gonna stop you from<br>Seeing your big family<br>Until next year<br>When it&#8217;s gonna be a little<br>Smaller without<br>The matriarch that<br>Didn&#8217;t survive<br>The big lie<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t blame my friend<br>She was a simple person<br>Easily led by the machine<br>Indeed<br>The insurrectionists<br>Are from the same cloth<br>Confused<br>Misguided<br>Lied to<br>Feeling frustrated<br>Without anyone<br>To blame<br>Until we created and<br>We pushed the lies<br>About stolen elections<br>And we poured<br>Social media gasoline<br>On the false fire<br>How can anyone<br>Think for themselves<br>When we feed them<br>A diet of fast food<br>Propaganda<br>Why is it that<br>The healthy food<br>Costs 10x more than the<br>Junk Happy Meals<br>Why do we allow<br>People to be<br>Homeless<br>When houses are available<br>Why are the tax laws<br>Designed to grow<br>Wealth for the wealthy<br>Who has<br>Profited<br>During the pandemic?<br>While paupers<br>Are fighting in the streets<br>Against critical race theory<br>Because they think<br>THAT<br>is the problem<br>With our<br>&#8220;Great&#8221; Nation<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I lost my friend yesterday<br>But did I mention that<br>My cousin died this month too?<br>And other family members and<br>The woman up the street and<br>Meat Loaf <br>and the <br>5,625,212 and counting<br>People who have died from covid to date world wide.<br>All the while their are political power plays that capitalize on people looking the other way.<br>I couldn&#8217;t save my friend<br>I didn&#8217;t have the resources or community<br>That mattered to her<br>I probably turned away<br>And unfriended many more people<br>During the pandemic<br>That I couldn&#8217;t help<br>And for my own sanity<br>Needed to give myself<br>Space and time<br>To take care of those I love<br>Who have sacrificed for me<br>But I do believe we each<br>Make a difference<br>All of us<br>Make a ripple<br>In the still waters<br>When we throw a stone<br>May we each be<br>Mindful of the pebbles<br>In our pocket<br>Because our reach<br>Is far greater<br>Than we may realize<br>And then sometimes<br>A friend dies<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I lost my friend yesterday.She died of Covid.After painful, frightening weeks in the hospital.After undergoing<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5619,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5616","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dharma"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/272655534_628188148508954_5510923723764351469_n.gif","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5616","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5616"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5616\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5620,"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5616\/revisions\/5620"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5619"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5616"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5616"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.karmabytes.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5616"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}